Family photo sessions can feel a little more complicated once your kids hit the tween and teen years. Suddenly, getting everyone on board for matching outfits and smiling at the camera isn’t as simple as it used to be. But here’s the truth: family photos with tweens and teens can be some of the most fun, authentic, and meaningful sessions—when approached the right way.
As a photographer and mom, I get it. So today I’m sharing my favorite tips to make your session with older kids relaxed, natural, and—yes—even fun.
Let Them Be Themselves
Tweens and teens are in that in-between stage of craving independence while still being part of the family. Let’s lean into that. We’ll capture both the candid, silly sides and those more serious, almost-grown-up moments. No forced smiles—just real connections.
Involve Them in the Planning
One simple trick to reduce resistance? Let your teen or tween help plan the session. Whether it’s choosing the location, giving input on outfits, or suggesting a few poses or activities, giving them a voice makes them feel respected and included—and way more likely to engage.
Dress for Comfort and Confidence
We want everyone to feel good in what they’re wearing. Encourage your tweens/teens to pick outfits that match the overall family vibe but still reflect their personality. A confident kid makes for better photos every time.
Keep It Moving
I always include movement in sessions with older kids—walking, laughing, games, or even just changing locations. Movement helps ease awkwardness and gives us natural, relaxed images. The goal is connection, not perfection.
Give Them a Reason to Look Forward to It
Want a pro tip? Promise something fun afterward—like ice cream, a favorite restaurant, or even just a night off chores. A little positive incentive never hurts, and it shifts the energy from “ugh, a photo shoot” to “this might not be so bad.” AKA a bribe according to my son.
Focus on the Relationships, Not Just the Poses
Some of the most beautiful photos I’ve taken of tweens and teens are the in-between moments—the way a daughter leans into her mom’s side, a sibling making their brother laugh, or that quiet look between a dad and his almost-grown son. These are the images that last.
Final Thoughts:
The tween and teen years fly by. They may not be little anymore, but they still belong in the family story you’re telling. A family photo session can be a powerful way to freeze this fleeting time—and with the right approach, it can even be something they enjoy.
If you’re ready to book a relaxed, personality-packed session for your family, I’d love to help make it happen. Let’s capture the magic of who your family is.
Ready to book a family session? Contact me today!
